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    My Thoughts Don't Know How to Wait

    Helpful forImpulsivity • Fast thinkers • Co-regulation

    My Thoughts Don't Know How to Wait

    Simon's thoughts arrive bright and fast. He doesn't mean to interrupt, but the thoughts feel like they'll disappear if he doesn't say them right away. On a camping trip with Dad, Simon chases fireflies that keep blinking out the moment he reaches for them — and realizes that's exactly what his thoughts feel like. Beside the fire, Dad doesn't try to slow him down. He sits with him while Simon discovers the tiny space between seeing a thought and saying it.

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    For Kids

    If your thoughts feel like they'll disappear unless you catch them right away, you're not being rude — your brain is just fast. The pause between noticing and saying is a skill you grow.

    For Parents

    Fast-thinking children aren't being rude when they interrupt — they're racing a real internal feeling that their thought will vanish if it isn't caught right now. The space between noticing a thought and saying it is a nervous-system skill, not a character flaw.

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    My Thoughts Don't Know How to Wait

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