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The Gingerbread Man Who Didn’t Expect Christmas
Helpful forIdentity • Change • Belonging
Sally J decorates a gingerbread man with extra care, planning to give him to her best friend. But her brother Ben coats the cookie in clear sealant and hangs him on the tree. The gingerbread man, unable to move, watches the family work through hurt feelings and apologies, and slowly discovers that being part of something different doesn't mean being part of something less.
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- Illustrated story
- Conversation cards
- Reflection pages
- Coloring pages
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For Kids
When something changes in a way you didn't expect, it doesn't mean you're less special. You still belong, even in the version of the day you didn't plan.
For Parents
When the plan changes, kids don't just lose the thing — they lose the picture they had of themselves inside it. Belonging gets rebuilt through connection and curiosity, not by trying to restore the original version of the day.
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The Story Experience
Understand. Connect. Apply.
One guided path through this story — three stages, nine pieces, all in one place.
Step 1
Understand
For the grown-up, first.
Step 2
Connect
Read it together.
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FreeConversation cards
MemberReflection pages
MemberStep 3
Apply
Carry it into everyday life.
Coloring pages
Coming soonSongs from the story
Free · 1 of 3- Not the Way I Planned (Sally J's Song)Lyrics
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